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Circle the wagons

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Pioneer wagon trains literally circled their wagons at night for protection.

Creating a closed ring helped shield families, livestock, and supplies from raids, wild animals, and harsh weather—and the formation later evolved into a metaphor for any type of unified, defensive action.

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Hold your horses

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Frontier riders needed to keep horses steady at all times, but particularly in chaotic and potentially dangerous settings like stage stops and river crossings.

By the mid-1800s, the phrase became a common command, later evolving into a figurative call for patience.

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On the warpath

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This term originated as an English rendering of a Native American expression for wartime mobilization—specifically the route or course taken toward an impending conflict.

Euro-American settlers later adopted the phrase, and by the late 19th, century newspapers were using it metaphorically to describe anyone behaving aggressively or angrily.

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Branding iron

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Ever wonder where the term "brand name" comes from? Frontier ranchers used heated irons to mark ownership on their cattle.

The idea of a distinctive identifying mark later moved into the commercial world, where "brand name" came to signify a recognizable product or company identity.

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Come hell or high water

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Ranchers driving cattle across rough terrain used this phrase to signal determination despite floods, storms, conflict, and whatever else the wild frontier could throw at them.

The earliest known printed use appears in an 1882 issue of The Burlington Weekly Hawk Eye, an Iowa newspaper. Railroads later adopted it in contracts requiring delivery despite natural obstacles.

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Riding shotgun

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In Wyatt Earp’s era, the seat beside a stagecoach driver was reserved for an armed guard carrying a shotgun to deter bandits.

By the early 20th century, the job had vanished, but the expression endured as a casual claim for the front passenger seat.

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Belly up to the bar

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Saloon bars on the frontier often lacked stools, so patrons had to stand and lean their bellies directly against the counter.

The phrase soon came to mean approaching something boldly, whether at a bar or any other challenge.

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Kick the bucket

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Rural butchers often suspended animals from a beam called a "bucket," and they sometimes kicked during slaughter.

The phrase was popular on farms and frontier towns, eventually becoming a euphemism for dying.

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Dead ringer

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Frontier horse racers engaged in plenty of shady practices—and one of the most common was substituting a horse with a look-alike, a "ringer," to scam bets.

When the substitute was an exceptionally close match, it was called a "dead ringer," emphasizing its perfect likeness.

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High noon

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Before standardized clocks or reliable rail schedules, "high noon" was an easy way to tell time by noting the sun at its highest point.

It also became associated with showdowns and other events because midday offered the clearest visibility.

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Pulling out the good china

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In the past, people often had a set of special dishes reserved for holidays or important guests to make meals feel more memorable.

Today, many people use just one set of dishes and often eat casually, sometimes even standing over the sink. Taking the time to create a pleasant dining experience can show respect not only for your guests but also for yourself .

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Good table manners

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Good table manners are often mistaken for being overly formal or pretentious, but that couldn’t be further from the truth.

The true purpose of practicing polite dining habits is to make sure everyone enjoys a relaxed and pleasant meal together , and it’s often easier to practice than most people realize.

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Not taking off your shoes in public

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Recently, there’s been a noticeable trend of people going shoeless in places like airplanes and restaurants. As society grows more casual, some even put their bare feet on seats, armrests, or tables.

However, it's best to keep your shoes on in public unless your host specifically asks you to remove them.

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Standing when greeting someone new

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When meeting someone for the first time or welcoming someone into a group, it's polite to stand as a gesture of acknowledgment .

This simple act, expected of both men and women, conveys both warmth and respect.

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Making introductions

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Making introductions is becoming less common, yet it remains one of the most valuable social skills. Even if you forget someone’s name, it’s always better to ask than to risk letting them feel left out in a group.

Good manners are all about helping others feel at ease , and introductions don’t have to be uncomfortable or awkward when done with a little thought and effort.

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Thank-you notes

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While everyone enjoys being thanked, it has become rare for people to express gratitude in a lasting way. Any form of thanks, including a text or email, is appreciated, but a handwritten thank-you card remains the most meaningful .

The personal touch of seeing your handwriting shows thoughtfulness, and many people cherish and keep these cards, something that’s much harder to do with digital messages.

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Asking permission

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In a society where people often say, "It’s easier to apologize than to ask for permission," many act without asking, whether it’s hugging someone, posting their picture online, or taking a bite of their food.

However, it’s always more polite to ask before doing anything that involves or affects someone else . A simple question like "Are you okay with this?" can go a long way toward showing respect without taking up much time.

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Opening doors for men and women

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Chivalry may have some outdated interpretations, but politeness is something everyone can practice, regardless of gender . Simple acts like holding the door open are easy to do and appreciated by everyone.

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Holding the elevator

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In today’s world, many people are either too wary of strangers or adopt a "not my problem" attitude when seeing someone struggle in public. But as long as there’s no safety concern, it's important to continue practicing simple courtesies, like holding the elevator door for someone in a hurry .

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Returning phone calls

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As society evolves, so does etiquette, especially with the rise of new technology, but some shifts aren't always for the better. A common example is responding to a phone call with a text message.

While some people may prefer texting over speaking on the phone, it’s still considered polite to return a call with another phone call , particularly when someone has taken the time to reach out to you.

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No sunglasses indoors

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These days, it’s common to see people wearing sunglasses everywhere, even in places like movie theaters, but it raises a question: Are we avoiding others, or simply hiding behind our shades?

Eye contact is essential for effective communication, as it demonstrates respect and facilitates understanding. While it's fine to wear sunglasses outdoors, it’s best to take them off indoors to engage properly with others.

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RSVP’ing promptly

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With the rise of casual invites, often sent by email or social media, RSVPing has become increasingly rare. Failing to respond to an invitation is not only poor etiquette but also inconsiderate.

Hosts put significant time and effort into planning events, from buying food to organizing entertainment. Not RSVPing or waiting until the last minute only makes their job harder.

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Harrison Ford

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The face of Indiana Jones was born in 1942 in the Windy City. A Boy Scout from Illinois , he attended school in the suburbs before moving to Wisconsin for college and later to California to pursue acting. There, he became a self-taught professional carpenter to support his family. Everything changed for him when writer and director George Lucas took a liking to him and started including him in small roles in his films. Lucas finally gave him a leading role as Han Solo in his space opera, Star Wars (1977).

Ford is one of the most recognizable actors in the world. His long career includes critically acclaimed performances in films like Blade Runner (1982), The Fugitive (1993), and Witness (1985), for which he earned an Academy Award nomination for Best Actor .

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Walt Disney

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Yes, the father of Mickey Mouse was born far from California’s Disneyland. Walt Disney was born in 1901 in the Hermosa neighborhood of Chicago. He grew up in the city until his family moved to Missouri when he was a young boy, but he later returned to study at the then-called Chicago Academy of Fine Arts (now the School of the Art Institute of Chicago). In 1956, Disney purchased his birth home in Chicago with the intention of restoring it, though his plans for the house were never fully realized.

Of course, the founder of The Walt Disney Company was an imaginative mind who led projects that revolutionized the film industry . His endeavors pioneered the introduction of synchronized sound in animation, the production of full-length animated films, and, most notably, the creation of Disneyland, the world’s first theme park of its kind.

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Bob Fosse

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Bob Fosse was one of the most celebrated choreographers and directors in both Broadway and film history. He was born in 1927 on the North Side of Chicago and grew up in the Ravenswood neighborhood. A revolutionary creator who brought a signature Chicago-jazz style to musical theater, Fosse had been exposed to the city’s vaudeville and burlesque scenes, which were popular in the 1930s and 1940s and attended many dance studios in the city during his youth.

His experience as a performer in Chicago probably influenced the recurring theme of showbiz’s dark side , evident in musicals like Cabaret , Chicago , and Sweet Charity , which he directed and choreographed. He also won an Academy Award for Best Director for the film Cabaret and is the only person to have ever won an Oscar, a Tony, and an Emmy in the same year (1973).

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Quincy Jones

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Quincy Delight Jones Jr., one of the most influential musicians of modern times, was born on the South Side of Chicago , a rich cultural hub in the city. Though his family moved from Chicago when he was 10, it was in the city that he was first exposed to musical neighbors and the culture of religious singing. Later, as a teen, he picked up a trumpet and thus began his incredible musical career.

Quincy Jones is most famous for producing Michael Jackson’s albums , not least of which is Thriller , the best-selling album of all time. He’s also known for his work as a film and TV producer, creating the music for iconic films like The Color Purple and The Wiz , as well as TV shows like The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air . In 1985, he produced and conducted the charity single "We Are the World" to fight famine in Africa. Jones has won 28 Grammy Awards.

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Ray Bradbury

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Ray Bradbury, the author of Fahrenheit 451 (1953) and The Martian Chronicles (1950), was also a Chicagoland native. He was born in Waukegan , about 35 miles north of Chicago, in 1920. Despite leaving Chicago early in life, his childhood in Waukegan is reflected in some of his work, particularly in scenes depicting small-town America—nostalgic, yet sometimes eerie.

Bradbury managed to weave Waukegan repeatedly into his fiction by transforming it into his imagined Green Town, Illinois . This fictional town serves as the setting for his semiautobiographical trilogy consisting of Dandelion Wine , Something Wicked This Way Comes , and Farewell Summer , and it appears in several of his short stories. Most of the narrations set in Green Town evoke summer scenes led by children in a small town at the beginning of the century.

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Bill Murray

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The famous comedic actor Bill Murray was born in Evanston, Illinois, a suburb north of Chicago. He grew up nearby, attending Loyola Academy, and in the early '70s, he was invited by his brother Brian to join the improvisational comedy troupe The Second City . This helped launch the career of a talented comedic writer and actor, known for his roles in Saturday Night Live , which he joined in 1977, as well as films like Ghostbusters (1984), Groundhog Day (1993), and Lost in Translation (2003).

Murray is a devoted fan of several Chicago sports teams, including the Chicago Cubs , the Bears, and the Bulls . In the '80s, he served as a guest commentator for a Cubs game, and he was famously emotional in 2016 when the Cubs won the World Series after a 108-year drought.

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Michelle (Robinson) Obama

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Michelle Obama, née Robinson, was born in the South Shore neighborhood of Chicago. She grew up in a working-class family and attended Whitney M. Young Magnet High School, a prestigious public school in Chicago, where she excelled academically. She later went on to study at Princeton University and Harvard Law School before returning to Chicago to work at a law firm, where she met future President Barack Obama.

While she is most famous for being First Lady of the United States from 2009 to 2017, before having that role she held several positions in Chicago’s public service . For instance, she served as an assistant commissioner for the city mayor and she directed the city’s office for Public Allies, a leadership development organization. She also worked at the University of Chicago and at the University of Chicago Medical Center.

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Robin Williams

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The late and beloved actor Robin Williams was originally from the Lake View neighborhood of Chicago, where he was born in 1951. He spent his childhood in the North Shore, where his father was a senior executive at Ford until the family relocated to Michigan. Williams's legendary quick wit and his knack for improvisation and making people laugh landed him one of his first gigs, a TV commercial for Illinois Bell, shown in the Chicago area, in which he already showcased his talent for goofy voices. He also made guest appearances at the Second City stage where he performed memorable improvisational acts.

Williams had an incredible ability to jump from character to character in an instant, and he soon won the hearts of the audience as both a comedic and dramatic actor in films like Aladdin (1992), Mrs. Doubtfire (1993), and Good Will Hunting (1997).

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Ernest Hemingway

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Another writer from the suburbs of Chicago was Ernest Hemingway, born in 1899 in Oak Park. He spent his early years in this upper-middle-class neighborhood. Though he left Chicago as a young man, the Hemingway Birthplace Museum in Oak Park still stands as a tribute to his legacy, and the area honors him with numerous literary festivals and events every year.

During his childhood, he spent summer days in the woods and lakes of Northern Michigan, experiences that likely forged his love for nature and adventure, which are reflected in many of his works. Hemingway is best known for his timeless contributions to American literature, including The Old Man and the Sea (1952) and For Whom the Bell Tolls (1940). In 1954, he was awarded the Nobel Prize for Literature.

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Betty White

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The "Golden Girl," Betty Marion White, was born in Oak Park, just like Hemingway. Even though she was still a toddler when her family moved to California, and she was considered a national treasure, she liked to remind people that her roots were at Oak Park , which made fans from the area very happy.

The village had prepared to celebrate her 100th birthday on January 17, 2022, but sadly, the star passed away just weeks before. Oak Park then proceeded to celebrate her life and career at an event that gathered hundreds of fans despite the freezing weather. White held the Guinness World Record for the longest TV career by an entertainer, starred in iconic shows like The Mary Tyler Moore Show and The Golden Girls , and was also a pioneering female producer behind the camera.